Jack's Corner
Philosophy
My simple philosophical statement can be expressed as:The traditional Hindu social model is also one that I find realistic. It defines four distinct periods in life during which people can and should do certain things.Co-operation instead of competition, generosity instead of greed, patience instead of haste, and sufficiency instead of indulgence.
- Brahmic conduct (Brahmacharya) is the student stage, during which one learns about oneself and the world.
- Householder (Grihastha) is the stage of family and societal obligations.
- Forest dweller (Vanaprastha) is where one is freer to begin a contemplative life.
- Renunciation (Samnyasa) is where one goes deeper, surrendering all worldly things and living as a simple mendicant.
Enlightenment (click to read more)
Intuition
• The Intuition Network is a good place to start exploring.
• Intuition. . . Awaken to the Journey Within is another neat site.
• InnerSelf has a good article.
I also like a quote from The Science of Mind, page 358: “ Right here, through our own nature, is the gateway and the path which leads to illumination, to realization, to inspiration, to the intuitive perception of everything. The highest faculty in man is intuition and it comes to a point sometimes where, with no process of reasoning at all, he instantly knows.”
We were designed to live by our senses, not by our brains. But over the eons we've learned to think our responses instead of feel them, totally backwards from the way all the rest of nature lives. Follow your inner-guidance; it is sublime, immutable and never failing. Try using intuition, you'll like it!
Now
The past matters for learning, not for accounting.
"Do it now" is one practical application. If you know that you would rather be living somewhere else, working somewhere else, or just doing something different, then now is the time to follow your intuition.
Stop doing the things you dislike doing, and start doing the things you really want to do. That sounds easy and it is. The effort of going out and earning the money to do what you really want to do is almost always less effective than just going out and doing it. By the time you do have the money, you may have lost all your vigor and joy.
Carpe diem - exclamation, used to urge someone to make the most of the present time and give little thought to the future.
Listen to your inner self; you really do know what is best for yourself.
Competition
Even more basic is internal competition. One does not compete at being true to oneself – if you're worrying about what the next guy is doing, you've given up your freedom.
On a larger scale I think a quote from “Dark Shadows” by Ohky Simine Forest is appropriate.
“Today's actual societies still admit and foment competition, ambition, greed, and violence, without true consideration for the people. Such societies disguise themselves under false morality and dishonest respectability. There is no real order in these societies.”
Nonviolent Communication (NVC) is sometimes referred to as compassionate communication. "Its purpose is to strengthen our ability to inspire compassion from others and to respond compassionately to others and to ourselves." It's another aid in avoiding the competitive mode.
If you are self-conscious and alert to how you appear to others or try to do better than the rest, everything becomes a challenge instead of an opportunity, stressful rather than delightful. Competing for Life by Paul Pearsall is an excerpt from his book "Toxic Success" and it describes the state our culture has created.
After much scrutiny, I've concluded that my competitive days are past and I intend to instead pursue more cooperation. So far it's a lot more fun and satisfying.